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5 steps to get over someone who doesn’t love you
Hi guys. Today on relationship matters, we’ll be taking a look at how to get over someone who doesn’t love you.
It’s not uncommon to be at the centre of unreciprocated love. Most of us have been there. For those few who hasn’t, good luck and don’t hope to be in one.
If you happen to be in one right now, this article was designed for you. At the end of this, you will find getting over someone who doesn’t reciprocate your love to be very easy.
5 steps to get over someone who doesn’t love you
Accept that he/she doesn’t love you
Pursuing someone who doesn’t love you can lead to heartbreak. Also, accepting it and moving on with your life is heartbreaking too. However, it’s better you accept the fact which will take a shorter time to heal than to continuously hurt yourself by pursuing such a person.
You just have to let go of things and situations that are not meant to be. This unreciprocated love happens to be one of those situations.
Take time to grieve
Like I said earlier, accepting that you guys are not meant to be will hurt. For this reason, you have to take time out to grieve. You don’t outlive your pains by ignoring them.
Accept that you are hurt and grieve till you get your mind off it. With time you will go back to being yourself. It’s healthier to let yourself be sad than it is to suppress those emotions. It’s not uncommon. People have gone through this and even forgotten than it ever happened.
Recognize that it’s beyond your control
Like I always tell people, only put effort to alter things within your control. Once it’s beyond your control, it’s best you let things be. This scenario happens to fall under that situation that is beyond your control.
Though it’s arguable that making someone fall in love with you is within your control, I still think it’s best you don’t force the situation. There are billions of people in this world and there are people somewhere who will love you with little or no effort. So why force it?
Give them space
Trying to get over someone and still craving their attention is like trying to lose weight and still consume lots of calories. The safest way out of this love bondage is to give them space.
Try to be yourself without them in the picture. With these, living without the thought of such a person or wanting such a person will become easier by the day. In the end, you will realize that you are stronger than you think.
Realize you are better off alone
This realization can only dawn on you when you give them space. With time you will realize how much better you are without the thoughts of someone who doesn’t love you as much as you love them.
With this realization, getting over such a person will become easier.
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