Hey everyone! Today, let’s talk about how you can tell if a guy likes you without him actually saying it. We’ll be looking at different body language signs.
Now, what exactly is body language? It’s a way of communicating without using words. Instead, people use physical actions like facial expressions, how they stand or move, gestures, eye contact, touch, and personal space.
There are many types of body language, and they can show up in different ways. Some of them may not be obvious to you right away, but your gut feeling and instincts might pick up on them, and they’re usually pretty accurate.
To spot these body language signs, pay attention to how close he stands or sits to you, how he looks into your eyes or at your face, how he moves his head, what he does with his feet and arms, and so on. These are common cues in body language.
Now, let’s get to the signs that indicate he’s falling for you, has a crush on you, or is really interested in you. Here they are:
13 Body languages that mean he likes you
Usually facing you.
When you guys are in the midst of friends and he is always found facing you in particular, it could be an indication that he is into you. But mind you, a guy can also be into you but not always found facing you because some guys can be shy.
So rather than directly facing you, he might as well not face you or better put if he does it at all it could be indirect and not obvious at all. But oftentimes, amid everyone when he tends to always face you, it could be an indication that he likes you.
Facing towards you could also be accompanied with some little staring. Even when he isn’t facing you, when you often catch him staring at you when you look his direction, then he is crushing (except you have something weird on your face or you are awkwardly dressed -LOL)
But is it every day you would have something weird on your face? I suppose not. But yet you keep getting constant stares from time to time. Babygirl this often means that he doesn’t only like you but finds you beautiful.
With staring also comes the frequent and unusual eye contacts. If you are getting eye contacts more often than not, it’s obvious he is trying to get your attention and make you realize he kind of likes you.
There’s no doubt the eyes say a lot about whether a guy likes you. When a man locks eyes with you, it means he is confident and wants you to know he’s watching you (hopefully, not in a creepy way).
Keep in mind there’s a difference between staring and locking eyes. The eye lock is a connective moment that should last long enough to make a mark. So if you find him staring and locking eyes, he’s totally into you.
According to experts, when a guy is constantly licking his lips, he’s emotionally trying to connect with you. Sure, he could just be nervous or naturally just used to it because I know people who are generally used to licking their lips(oftentimes for attention and other times because it is dry and they have just gotten used to it).
But all the same, you also need to consider the fact that he probably likes you. Especially if he usually looks at you after doing so(hopefully not in a creepy and playboy manner). Also, the possibilities of he would like to kiss you are there as well which is also an indication that he is into you.
Constantly having body contacts whether knowingly or unknowingly could be a huge sign as well. A guy who likes you would always steal the slightest chance to have body contacts with you (he can go as far as praying that you trip off just so he would catch you -LOL).
He always wants to sit close to you. Be it directly facing you or having you by his side. He wants you two breathing in the same space. If something is in your hair, he would rather help you take it off himself than tell you to.
If he is someone very confident he can go as far as holding your hand at the slightest chance he gets or putting his arm around your shoulder. He would also probably like playing with you by tickling you if you are the kind who is ticklish because all of that brings about you shaking, laughing and moving close to him and he just wants to touch you.
If you are on a group date and he is a romantic type he can be playing with your hands or using his legs to disturb yours in a sweet way underneath the table. I can go on and on but I’m sure you get the gist already. So if you notice any of these things. He likes you.
Usually smiles around you
If you find him usually cheerful, jovial, happy and smiling when you come around then he probably likes you. A guys mood can easily get lightened up when the girl he likes or is crushing on enters the room.
You could find him smiling at the slightest thing you say. He is generally just happy around you and happy you are around. If this is the case then you probably light up his world girl.
He usually tries to make you laugh
Alongside smiling when you are around is trying to make you smile and laugh as well. Infact this is more important to him. That he is the source of your smile and laughter would give him joy and if that gives him joy it means he likes you.
You find him wanting to crack silly jokes(whether it makes much sense or not but if the stupidity of the joke can make you laugh then he is happy). If this guy always try so hard to put a smile on your face then be rest assured he is totally into you.
Fidgeting could also be an indication that a guy is probably shy but he likes you and has a crush on you. When a guy is constantly fidgeting, playing with his belt and putting his hands in his pockets, stammering and kind of restless, that’s a nice subtle sign that he is interested in you.
Often, you could even find him losing words, mixing words, or repeating words while trying to dish out the right words to use in talking with you. All of those are all part of fidgeting. It could be he is probably a little anxious because of you. All the same, he likes you.
Always trying to get your attention
Staring and eye contacts which I mentioned earlier could also be part of his strategy to get your attention. He usually wants to be noticed by you. If you are already close enough and have each other’s contacts, he could try getting your attention by frequently calling and texting you even when you don’t often return him or do the same.
He would not easily relent. He would keep trying to get your attention. If a man is always trying to get your attention, he’s showing you that he not only likes you a lot but also wants more from you like being in a relationship with you etc.
Always try to impress you
He could try to Impress you in various ways, either by always dressing well especially if he is going where he knows he would meet you, trying to smell extravagantly nice, trying to show his manly strength by doing things that require those or helping out etc.
Well, if he goes the extra mile to try to impress you so much, it means he cares a lot about what you think and that means the guy is definitely into you.
He naturally becomes a gentleman
Some guys are natural gentlemen but still when it comes to certain things they don’t exactly go the extra mile. Well, this gentleman would go the extra mile for you. Becoming a gentleman could mean him becoming really polite and well mannered with you. If a guy likes you, he will make it a point of showing you his manners.
Things like opening doors, preparing something for you when you come over, coming to cover you with a blanket on a cold night and helping you carry your shopping bags will be the norm. If he happens to offer you his jacket on a cold day, you can be sure he’s totally into you.
You would find him always wanting to protect you. And this protection could come in various forms. Take for example, if a dog comes running towards you and he knows you are scared of dogs(even if he doesn’t know that) he tries to make sure you are safe behind him.
Another example could be seen when you are both walking on the road. He makes sure you are not the one close to the road or when you guys want to cross the road, for example, he makes sure you are close to him and safe or better still he reaches out to you by offering his hand to cross you. When a guy makes sure you feel safe, he’s telling you he likes you a lot. So if he does any of these things, you’ve just hit the jackpot.
Treats you well
There would always be a difference between the way he treats you and the way treats other ladies. He doesn’t joke when it comes to your matter. This doesn’t mean he is rude to others and nice to you -Nah. But rather even while being good to others, the way he treats you would always stand out.
You wouldn’t just be like every other girl. Infact he would make sure this is obvious to you so you know he has a thing for you. You wouldn’t find him flirting anyhow with other women in front of you but rather he can flirt with you in front of other women. He wouldn’t want to do that so you don’t get the wrong idea.
He would try to make it obvious that you are the queen after his heart with his actions. You would find him constantly going out of his way to help you, takes you out on dates, always at your beck and call, buys you gifts etc. Infact he would treat you like gold and trust me, You are one lucky girl when you have a man who makes sure you feel good inside and out!